Personalised Quartz

Which ring for my girlfriend?
I’m getting my girlfriend a ring for our 2 year anniversary. Which one looks better?
http://www.limogesjewelry.com/custom.asp?productid=11679 – With genuine smokey quartz and emerald OR simulated alexandrite and emerald.
http://www.bradfordexchange.com/products/107248001_personalized-birthstone-couples-ring-loves-journey.html? – With I believe emerald and alexandrite (doesn’t say if its simulated,lab created, or genuine…..)
for the “Love’s Journey” It says crystal gemstones so I assume they aren’t genuine….
I like the first one best ![]()
But I’m not your girlfriend xD
Do you know if she likes wearing silver or gold coloured jewellery best?